Sunday, February 13, 2011

Oral Sex: A Step-by-Step Guide

Everyone knows guys are obsessed with oral sex. That's probably why sex therapists and advice columnists receive more questions about it than any other sex act. I've collected the 11 most common oral sex concerns women face ‑- so you and your man can both love every minute. Have you ever seen a grown man beg? You will.

Where do I start?

The basic technique: Cover your teeth with your lips, with your mouth in an "O" shape ‑- don't stretch your lips, though; keep them loose and soft. With one hand gripping the base of the shaft, make one smooth movement by sliding your (very wet) mouth over his erection, taking him as far into your mouth as is comfortable. Stay there for one to two seconds, then slowly slide back up to the top, making eye contact with him as you reluctantly remove your mouth. (If his eyes are rolling back into his head, you're off to a good start.) Then ‑- to his delight ‑- start again. Slide your mouth repeatedly up and down. Use your tongue to keep everything nice and wet by swirling it around the shaft. Once you've mastered this, start using all of your tongue ‑- the top, the tip, the sides, the underneath. Try what I call a twist-and-swirl: Make a twisting motion with one hand as you slide it up and down, and swirl your tongue around the rim of the head, paying particular attention to the frenulum (the bit of skin on the underside).


Positions To Help You Last Longer

Positions To Help You Last Longer
Are you tired of losing control every time you make love to your woman? Do you want to discover sex positions to help you last longer and that will keep you erect and feeling the good friction without the "Oh no, I'm already at the edge" feeling?

Well, today is going to be a very happy day for men out there who get too excited around the vaginal playground. These tips and position suggestions will allow you to delve into your sexual desires without fearing that the finale is just a pump or two away. So, before you burst just thinking about it, we'll get to our positions to help you last longer.

Beyond positions to help you last longer

Keep in mind that it takes more than just sex positions to help you last longer. First off, you need to keep a positive frame of mind. Don't turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy by continuously telling yourself that you can't do it. You can, especially if you believe you can.
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Withdrawal Method Sex Positions

Recent research has shown that the withdrawal method of contraception isn’t as useless as we all think it is. There is a common perception that using withdrawal (or "pulling out" as it's referred to) is as good as doing nothing, but most of us know that, in fact, this isn’t true -- it’s worked for most of us at least once, if not on a regular basis. Taking hormones and using condoms or diaphragms doesn’t work well for everyone for a variety of reasons, making the withdrawal method, in reality, a reasonably attractive option for many.

The 2008 research paper published in a recent edition of Contraception magazine shows that withdrawal is only 2% less effective than condoms. Condoms have a 2% failure rate, withdrawal has 4%. However, the real problems start when condoms, or withdrawal, are not used correctly, bringing the total realistic failure rate up to almost 20%. In saying all this, done properly, withdrawal is now a scientifically proved, reasonably reliable, contraception method for adults in trusting sexual or romantic relationships. However, it isn’t called coitus interruptus for no reason: Pulling out interrupts the flow of sex, and some people might find this unappealing. However, you can but try.
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Sexual Positions For Overweight People

While men who are overweight can enjoy sex just as much as the next guy, it seems that the feat is not always as simple as it sounds. Certain sex positions aren't very fulfilling and may make for awkward moments, so today's tip is dedicated to the horizontally challenged, but horny nevertheless.

First off, it's very important to have good stamina because sex is not a spectator sport. You have to be ready to delve into the act with your heart, soul and big-boned body. Don't just lay there, always keep yourself involved -- unless of course, she's the dominant type and wants you to submit to her (yum).

The following are not exactly mind-blowing positions that'll make your head spin, but they are good for curing what ails you (pending orgasm). So grab your woman and start riding the wave. Also keep in mind that these positions are good for those of any size.

pillows are your friend

Missionary, as I've already discussed, is not exactly the cream of the crop when it comes to the greatest sexual positions, but it does its duty for lovers everywhere when necessary. There is a catch for the overweight folks; you're going to need some pillows.
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20 kinky sex tips

So, you're ready to up the ante in the sex stakes? Try one of these down and dirty sex tips to turn the heat up in the bedroom or out..

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Having Sex During Your Period

If you're having your period, you may be assuming that sex is off-limits. Maybe you don't feel comfortable being intimate during your period, or you often feel unattractive or just unclean. Maybe your partner isn't comfortable with intimacy while you're menstruating.

Sex during your period.

In the end, choosing to have sex during “that time of month” is a personal choice that both you and your partner have to be comfortable with. If you want to, however, there's no reason you can't enjoy intimacy at all times of your menstrual cycle. In fact, it may bring real health benefits.

Having sex during your period may help provide pain relief for menstrual cramps by providing feel-good endorphins that are released during orgasm. Sex during your period could also help to shorten your period by a few days: You will still have a normal, healthy period, but the additional contractions that your uterus experiences during orgasm might help shed your menstrual blood faster, therefore ending your period a bit sooner than usual.

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Sexual Positions for Better Lovemaking

As the Kama Sutra — that ancient Indian book on sexuality — shows us, sexual activity is a pursuit of infinite variety. There are hundreds of ways in which male and female bodies can come together for mutual pleasure. Knowing a variety of sex positions can help you be a better and more inventive lover for your partner.

What's the best sex position? That answer is different for every couple. "Every two people fit together differently," says Sandra Leiblum, PhD, a sex therapist and director of psychological services at the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness in Bedminster. "Experiment and see what works, but don't get stuck too early with any one position because over time that will get boring."

Better Sex: The Missionary Position

It's a simple sex position: The woman lies on her back with her legs spread and her knees bent slightly. The man lies between her legs and guides his penis into her vagina, supporting his body weight with his arms or elbows.


Saturday, February 12, 2011

How to find your G-spot

The G-spot is one of life's mysteries, much like the Loch Ness monster and the Holy Grail. Scientists and sexperts have been arguing over the G-spot for years but most now agree that for some women it does exist, and it can lead to amazing orgasms.

So here's how to find your G-spot and 5 great tips on how to use it - and don't worry if you don't think you have a G-spot because these tips will have you orgasming for England anyway!

What is it?

For those believers out there the G-spot is a super-sensitive area found inside the front wall of the vagina. When it's stimulated, like the clitoris, it can bring you to orgasm quicker than just penetrative sex.

Why's it so special?

Deborah Sundahl, expert on female ejaculation and author of Female Ejaculation and the G-spot says, ' The G-spot has a unique orgasm, which is different from the clitoris. This is due to the fact that the prostate has a different nerve (pelvic) than the clitoris (pudendal), and therefore the G-spot has a different orgasmic sensation. This feeling is one of deep, melting love, and women love it!'
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Orgasms - Everything you ever wanted to know

Sexpert Sarah Hedley reveals everything you ever wanted to know about orgasms but were too afraid to ask

How do we have orgasms?

For many women an orgasm is something they can only dream of, while for others it's something that rarely happens when they're with their partner.

If you fall into either of these categories, then don't worry, you're not alone. Research has shown that
  • 1 in 10 women never orgasm at all
  • 4 out of 10 women reach their first orgasm through masturbation.
  • Climaxing with a partner during penetrative sex is actually more difficult than TV, films and many books would have you believe and it requires techniques that often need to be learned.

But never fear, goodtoknow is here to help. Read on for expert advice and tips on how to put the 'ooooh' into your orgasm...

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50 sex tips to boost your love life

Looking for sex tips? We've got 50 top sex tips guaranteed to boost your love life and put some fun and sizzle back into your bedroom.

1. Be confident
It's the sexiest thing any woman can do to turn on her man - take control and be sure about what you want and how you want it done.

2. Enjoy each other's bodies
Try some of our simple Kama Sutra positions for this one. Give each other compliments, pay special attention to a person's less favourite bits, make them feel desired and sexy. Body confidence is sexual gold!

3. Talk. One of the best sex tips we can recommend is to tell your partner what you're enjoying and why, even what could be done to make the sex better; faster slower etc. The sure-fire way to better sex time and time again!

4. Engage in foreplay
It's easy to forget that foreplay is all part of your sex life. Make sure you have enough foreplay with your partner until you're both ready for intercourse. Prolong it by putting your clothes on, go out for a drink or a meal. Keep the evening going on as long as you can until you have to run home for the most intense sex ever! See our fun foreplay tips for some ideas.

5. Surprise your partner
Put on some sexy lingerie one evening after work and wait for him. Don't let him touch you, dominate and lead him to the bedroom
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The Women Are Coming

So how can you possibly tell whether or not she has really reached orgasm? After all, since all women react differently to climaxing (just as men do), how can you tell whether she saw the heavens or was simply attempting to feed your ego?

Well, there are plenty of ways in which to determine that your sexual partner has reached the acme of sexual pleasure. Whereas some women make it quite obvious that they're having an orgasm, other women are quiet as a mouse and expect you to know that they're satisfied.

Some women have no problem being vocal and voicing what they want you to do. They scream, dig their nails into your back (or the bed as the case may be), pull your hair, cry, and in extreme situations, they black out for a moment.
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Understanding The Female Orgasm

When it comes to the female orgasm, most guys are confused. This is understandable considering that many men are clueless regarding the different types of orgasms and stimulations that can be given, not to mention if a certain part of the vagina has to be manipulated in order to give a woman an earth-shattering orgasm.

Well, if you're among the bewildered, have heart; today's tip will help you understand the female genitalia and the female orgasm inside and out.

what happens?

When a woman orgasms, regardless of which area of her body you're manipulating, her body physically reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she feels:
  • stimulation in her clitoris
  • her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase
  • tension builds within her pelvis
  • muscles contract throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor
  • tension is released upon orgasm

Tips For Curing Premature Ejaculation

What’s the No. 1 sexual issue that men face today? OK, the guy who said finding a sexual partner wins -- I’ll give you that one. What’s the second then? Chances are most of you said premature ejaculation, and most of you likely had a reaction to that term -- you felt some anxiety or thought about clicking back to your streaming porn that’s taking forever to download. It’s time to stop avoiding the issue and look at it. Why? For the simple reason that we only live once and having the best possible sex life should be an item on our bucket lists.

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants.

How often does this occur in different age groups for men? According to the 1999 NHSLS survey by Laumann et al., 30% of men ages 18-29, 32% ages 30-39, 28% ages 40-49, and 31% ages 50-59 stated climaxing too early was an issue. I know some of you were hoping age would slow things down. If men were asked if they’ve ever had at least one experience of premature ejaculation, almost every guy would get in line for their membership card.
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Top Ten tips for the Perfect Orgasm

Remember prolonging your Ejaculation time to get orgasm requires some imagination and effort from both the partners. If you are able to hold a little extra there are good chances of achieving that perfect orgasm.

1. Indulge in foreplay- spend three times the time in foreplay that you spend on actual intercourse.

2. Don't rush, be relaxed in bed, if your heart is surging - lie back and slow down for a minute or two.

3. Foreplay means kissing, massaging and stroking different parts of the body. Both partners should participate and first do it to each other and then do it simultaneously.

4. Enter vagina only when your partner is fully wet and ready for you.

5. Playing with nipples and gentle sucking on the nipples and breasts can often make the vaginal wet and ready for intercourse.


Premature Ejaculation: In Numbers

American Pie. Fast Times at Ridgemont High. In pop culture, climaxing too soon is usually the punchline to a bad joke. But there’s nothing funny about premature ejaculation (PE), especially if you have it. Most guys occasionally ejaculate sooner than they -- and their partners -- would like. As frustrating as it is, coming too quickly every now and then isn’t usually a cause for concern. But for an estimated 30%of men who consistently ejaculate too soon, PE is a real problem.

30% of men suffer

Think that number sounds high? I believe it may be even higher. In fact, PE is the most common sexual issue a guy can have. It doesn’t matter how old you are, how much experience you have or how much you know about sex, it can happen to anyone.
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Orgasm – Myths and Facts

A word that can elicit a myriad of emotions, that can swing from complete embarrassment and silence, to squeals, moans, excitement and eloquence, O R G A S M is perhaps one of the most happening and yet least discussed facts of life, which is most often kept under ‘wraps’. This hush hush affair with a universal and undeniably fundamental craving, Orgasm or the ‘O’ factor to most people, would mean the ‘ultimate’ consummation of sexual intimacy. Infact, sex is thought to come a ‘full circle’ with an orgasm.

Equally well known by slangs such as ‘cum’, or ‘climax’ and many others spoken in the ‘heat of the moment’, orgasm for the initiated would mean a peak of high intensity excitement during sex, packed into earth-shattering seconds, leaving the mind and body in a state of absolute bliss. Universally, it has remained an ‘unforgettable’ experience, known to get better with age and experience.


Make Her Ejaculate

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you.

Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you are with a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip on female ejaculation is going to leave you soaking wet.

Before you make her ejaculate

A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all (the juice is released from the Skene's glands, or urethral sponge), if your girl doesn't have complete control over her PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, there is a chance that she may actually pee all over you.
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Kissing Women: Their Favorite Places

Chances are good that you are not using one of the best tools in your sexual arsenal to its full potential. This secret weapon is your mouth. We’re not just talking about oral sex here, although you should be giving her oral pleasure on a regular basis if you want to be a good lover, and we’re going to go beyond kissing on the mouth in this article, which you should have mastered by now if you want to kiss her anywhere else.

Your mouth can be applied to various other parts of her body by kissing, licking, nibbling, biting, and sucking. Anywhere you touch her with your hands will most likely feel even better when stimulated by a warm, wet mouth. When it comes to kissing women, some of their favorite places are obvious, while others are frequently overlooked.


The ears are an often-neglected area of the body that can be the site of intense pleasure for her and using your mouth is the best way to stimulate them. Gentle nibbling on the earlobe is a reliable way to send shivers down her spine, but you should also try lightly brushing your lips against her ear, which will rouse the soft, fine hairs there creating waves of tingly pleasure.
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11 Places Women Want To Be Touched

We all know which female body parts men most frequently like to explore, but there is more to her than a vagina, breasts and butt. The largest amount of nerve endings may be packed into those areas, but she has pleasure sensors all over her body, and getting her in the mood may be as easy as stimulating some of these often-neglected parts. Incorporating touching these places into foreplay and sex, or just giving her some pleasure after a hard day, will definitely earn you some brownie points.


Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.

Nape of her neck

Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.


A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.
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G-Spot Vs. Clitoris

The last thing you want to do when you're a little lost is ask for directions -- especially when you don't know your way around the bedroom. No one will argue that the female body is straightforward and without mysterious secrets, so you shouldn't feel too bad for needing some pointers on her pleasure zones and the intricacies of the female orgasm.

To make it as simple as possible, there are two basic ways to go about bringing your lady to orgasm: stimulating her clitoris and stimulating her G-spot. Each area needs its own type of attention and will bring very unique sensations for her, and both are worth knowing a bit more about. Keep reading for the quick and easy reference guide to satisfying your woman -- no map required.



The clitoris is the only organ in the female body devoted solely to physical pleasure and is the physiological equivalent of the head of a man's penis -- packed with nerve endings and sensitive to touch.


Located on the outside of the female body just above the opening of the vagina, the clitoris is a small protrusion that becomes more pronounced when a woman is aroused.
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Female Ejaculation

You may have heard of female ejaculation, then again you may not have. You may believe it's real, or think it’s a figment of someone’s overzealous imagination. Fortunately, despite your personal beliefs, female ejaculation is real and possibly coming with a woman near you.

Female ejaculation, also known as "squirting" or "gushing" is not, we repeat not urine. It is actually near the exact (minus the sperm) chemical construction as prostatic fluid.

You may be thinking, “But women don’t have prostates!” Not true. Only a couple of years ago the medical establishment admitted the existence of the female prostate. The G-spot is the main ingredient in female ejaculation and it's no coincidence that the female G-spot is in practically exactly the same spot (albeit on a different wall) as the male prostate.

Men are often very proud when they are the catalyst for a "squirt" orgasm in their partner. This is because it takes a certain touch to procure these special ejaculatory functions. A female orgasm may be totally separate to her ejaculating -- they are not necessarily one and the same, and can be experienced at different times. A woman may have always been able to do it, but other women may deliberately learn how to do it, either on their own or with a partner.
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Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is the process whereby a female "squirts" or "gushes" a significant and noticeable amount of fluid during sexual intercourse. Female ejaculation may or may not coincide with orgasm. Some women can learn to do it, but it can occur without practice. The source of the fluid is under scrutiny by the medical and scientific community.

It certainly isn't a new concept -- many ancient texts and artworks depict female ejaculation. The Kama Sutra and an old Chinese sexual textbook describes it, as do the paintings in ancient Indian temples. It has over the centuries been discussed by various researchers including "congenital sexual inversion in women is a perversion related to neurasthenia [mental health problems] and homosexuality" (Krafft-Ebing in a study of sexual perversion, 1886) and Freud in 1905 related female ejaculation to hysteria.

The fluid that is ejaculated is almost identical chemically to male ejaculate fluid, and is thought to originate in the Skene’s glands. This fluid does not have any lubricative function, and it is not urine.
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How to use a condom

This Interactive provides step by step visual aid showing how to correctly use condoms which can prevent transmission of HIV, other sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy


Safe Sex - Be Sure and Safe

Sex is totally natural, great fun and an interesting exercise as well. Having said this, it needs to be emphasized that sexual intercourse involves certain health risks because of the exchange of bodily fluids among partners.

Safe Sex

Any kind of sexual activity— penile-vaginal sex, genital-oral sex or anal sex can lead to sexually transmitted diseases (STD) if those involved have multiple partners, or have unprotected sex with people who may be infected with STDs such as genital herpes, genital warts, Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis and many others. It also increases the risk of protracting deadly diseases such as AIDS, Hepatitis B and C.


Sex Calculator

Sex Calculator helps you to find out how many times you had sexual intercourse in your life. Also read top ten stimulating sex facts.

This calculator works best if you are in a regular relationship. If you have had breaks in your relationships, it may not reflect the average accurately.


Top Ten Stimulating Intimate Facts

Read some interesting intimate facts of life. Some of the commonest search words on internet are related to words that concern our intimacy. Internet has also been responsible for bringing these out of the closet. Medindia has put together some of these interesting facts together.

1. Guess how many acts of sexual intercourses happen daily in the world - approx.. 100 million!

2. Is kissing good for your health? Apparently so, the extra saliva that is exchanged reduces decay of teeth by keeping your mouths clean.

3. Can you lose calories by merely kissing? Apparently so, you lose 26 calories if you kiss for a minute and 260 if you did it for 10 minutes.

4. If your girl-friend or wife has a headache it maybe cured yes by having an intercourse but remember to give them orgasm! Research indicates that powerful endorphins or pain killers are released by females during orgasm.


Top Ten Facts about Intercourse

Read some interesting facts related to the act of pro-creation or sexual intercourse.

Intercourse of the sexual kind is also known as copulation, consummation, penetration and sexual union. The popular slang that is considered vulgar includes - Bang, frig, hump, lay, quickie and ride.

1. There are approximately 100 million acts of sexual intercourse each day.

2. The Durex - World Sex Survey indicates that globally we are having sex -
  • 103 times per year, or

  • 1.98 times per week, or

  • 0.28 times per day.

3. Certain foods can boost your sex drive and the list includes - lean meat, Grains, Watermelon, Pumpkin Seeds, Almonds, Bananas, Strawberries, Mangos, Avocado, Chilies, Basil, Cardamom, Figs, Pepper, Champagne, Oysters, Chocolate, Truffles, Caviar and Whipped Cream.

4. Sex can burn about 70-120 calories for a 130 pound woman, and 77 to 155 calories for a 170 pound man every hour.

5. The Americans and Greeks top the maximum number of sexual intercourses - they do it 124 and 117 times respectively a year. The Indian do it only 76 times a year but the Japanese men seem to be the least interested and only do it 36 times.

6. Sleep studies show that men have about nine erections during a night's sleep - regardless of what they dream.

7. In 2004 porno star Lisa Sparxxx created a very unusual world record - she had sex with 919 men in 24 hours.

8. There are over 4.2 million porn websites in the world and growing everyday with millions of videos depicting sexual intercourse in various Kama-Sutra postures.

9. The ancient Sanskrit Hindu book – Kama Sutra describes a total of 64 sexual positions for making love and sexual intercourse. These are very graphically depicted in the sculptures of Khajuraho and Konark Temple. He describes making love as "divine union".

10. In Africa one of the common myths that prevailed has been that sexual intercourse with a Virgin can cure AIDS. Deflowering Virgins has been popular in the past too so much so that Fatafehi Paulah, King of Tonga in the 17th century - deflowered 10 virgins a day and during his entire reign had slept with 37,800 virgins.

Top Ten Sex Tips for Men

At any given second, 4,000 people are having sex in the world. So ‘knocking’ is the most happening or ‘rocking’ thing in the world. Sex is not all about doing it in the bed. The three attributes that can help you in building an effective relationship with women include - your caring nature, communication skills and your confident attitude. ‘Lusty talk’ during sex can help to stimulate women even more. Tease her and make her feel desirable and you are sure to give her orgasm even if your performance is below par.

1. If you sweat during sex don’t worry – sweating men ooze testosterone and it is a biological turn on for women.

2. During sex keep the room warm rather than cold. So maybe turn off the air-conditioner if necessary or turn it on low. Heat causes dilatation of blood vessels and more swelling of the penis and vagina and flushing of the skin. Heat makes you ‘flush during sex.’

3. If you want your girl to become pregnant make sure you give her a big orgasm. The chances of pregnancy increases because contraction of pelvic muscles during orgasm help the sperms move up the vaginal canal and fertilize the eggs.

4. If your girl has a headache and you have no pills available give her a big orgasm and this can relieve her headache. Sex is known to cure headaches due to release of morphine like pain killer substances in the brain called endorphins.

5. Big orgasm also requires you to indulge in some foreplay. Gently touching, stroking, sucking and licking your partners nipples, thighs, vagina and clitoris are sometimes enough to start the orgasm. Keep the big act for the end.

6. Stimulate her clitoris with your fingers by gently fondling with the area. Remember the sensory nerve fibers have the highest concentration around the clitoris followed by labia, and the outer third of the vagina.

7. Find her G-Spot – G-spot stimulation can give a woman a big orgasm. It is usually located in the front section of the vaginal wall between her vaginal opening and the cervix. Use finger to stroke the front portion of the vagina and during intercourse the best way to stimulate her G-spot is insertion of the penis from the back. If the G-spot and clitoris are simulated simultaneously the women is likely to have ‘one hell of a orgasm’ that she is unlikely to forget.

8. Early morning sex is also a great option if you are tired in the night. You can get extra help from the surge of Testosterone in the morning. Blood levels of testosterone are highest just before dawn and are 40% higher than in the evening.

9. Keep you ‘But’ in shape - Buttocks of a man are the most admired part of a man’s body by women.

10. Age is not a factor for sex as much as it is for women. Studies show that even if you are over 70 years the chances of your being potent is over 73%. Actor Anthony Quinn fathered a baby at the age of 81 years.

Female Anatomy Guide

While some guys have been educated in female anatomy and in the practice of pleasing a woman, most guys fumble around like a donkey on ice skates trying to find a way -- any way -- to get her to reach orgasm.

Today is your lucky day if you're a part of the latter group because you're going to learn the ins and outs of the female anatomy and how to give her orgasms. So, let's start at the top, shall we?

the clitoris

What is the clitoris?

The clitoris is a small, bud-like formation located where the top of the inner vaginal lips (inner labia) meet. It usually conceals itself under a small hood of skin, but when a woman becomes sexually aroused the clitoris expands and emerges from the female anatomy.

The clitoris is a primary source of erotic stimulation, and most women can achieve a clitoral orgasm more easily than a G-spot orgasm. Believe it or not, the clitoris is the biological equivalent of the male penis. That's right, for the first few months after conception the genitalia of male and female fetuses seem to be identical.
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The female G-spot was ‘discovered’ by Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg in 1981 -- though it is still only a hypothesis. It is the rough-feeling area on the front wall, about one fingers length inside the vagina. The area is deemed to be a highly erogenous zone, that when stimulated correctly can lead to very intense orgasms and high levels of sexual arousal.

The G-spot’s existence has been in question since its "discovery," and there have been numerous studies done to prove or disprove its presence. Some research comes back negative, others positive and to date, the female G-spot is not proven to physiologically exist. However, anecdotal evidence suggests otherwise. Many women will testify to its presence; others are not so sure.

There are no firm conclusions being made, but research continues with a lot of assumptions being made, some of which appear quite unscientific -- so don’t believe everything you read. Do experiments and find out for yourself.

Science aside, some knowledge about the where the G-spot is found and how to stimulate it can assist in developing sexual pleasure during masturbation and sex with a partner.
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The Male G-spot

You’ve probably spent a considerable amount of time studying the female G-spot: How to find it, how to stimulate it and how to turn a woman into putty with a G-spot orgasm. What most men are far less familiar with is their own male G-spot. That’s right; some of you may be surprised to learn that the prostate is, essentially, the male equivalent of a woman’s G-spot -- and yours is far, far easier to find. We realize that, for some, the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind while reading this article, our advice could lead you to one of the best orgasms you could ever hope for.

Read on as we give you the lowdown on the male G-spot and what it can do for your sex life.

Discovering your G-spot

The male G-spot isn’t all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so you’ll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.
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The World's Most Sexual Number: 69

Now that you've perfected your oral sex techniques, it's high time that you get a little of what you give... at the same time. That's right, the time has come for you to introduce your lady to the wonderful world of numbers -- 69, that is.

Some people complain that it's uncomfortable and inconvenient to engage in a position where partners are upside down. I say malarkey! If you do it right like me (the regular Don Juan am I), you'll end up incorporating this sweet sexual foreplay into many of your sessions.

get into position

There are many varying positions in which to participate in this buffet for two; the key is to ensure comfort. After all, you're going to be digging in the bush for a while, and she'll be devouring your meat and potatoes for some time as well.

woman on top

There's nothing like wrapping your arms around the back of her thighs and those voluptuous butt cheeks, whilst spreading her legs apart so that you can suck up every last ounce of that succulent juice. As well, you can lick her from the back of her vagina (for you bad boys out there, you can start at her anus) up to that sweet sensitive clitoris of hers.
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5 Techniques To Prolong Oral Sex

When a woman goes down on us to show her appreciation for our existence, we should do our best to ensure that the act lasts as long as possible. And although you don't want to make her mouth numb or give her lockjaw, you do want the experience to last somewhat longer than 2 minutes.

That said, if you tend to get too excited when your woman is licking your penis, here are some ways to make it last longer than usual.

1- Make her change tempo

Instead of bobbing her head up and down like she's in a marathon, encourage your woman to lick you at different speeds. By changing paces, your penis will experience different sensations, thereby lessening the chances of your letting go too soon. If you're accustomed to quickness, her slow movements will give you a few moments to regain control, and vice versa.

2- Don't let her use her hands

Since you're well aware that masturbation eventually leads to ejaculation, chances are that if she uses her hands to stroke you while she uses her mouth, you'll ejaculate more quickly than usual.

Play a game: tell her that she can't use her hands to touch your penis, but she can use them to touch any other part of your body.
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Giving Her Oral Sex

Women often complain about men's ability to perform cunnilingus or, as it's more commonly called, oral sex. There are hundreds of men who write us asking for advice on how to give her oral sex. We can only imagine the millions of others who stand like a possum caught in headlights when it comes to the task. As such, we thought it was time to give readers a more in-depth look into the vagina and the amazing things that guys (and gals) can do to it with their tongues.

The following oral sex techniques are a simple guide to teaching all of you the basics of "eating out."

If you're not much of a vaginal vacuum and are hesitant to try oral sex because of odors or whatever other preconceived notions that you have, ensuring that she has just come out of the shower will ease your tension and you'll be able to let loose orally. There are men who stand their ground and absolutely refuse to perform oral sex; we suggest you get over yourself, because your girl likes to receive oral sex as much as you consider a good blow job a part of foreplay.
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69 Etiquette

Some people like to give and some like to receive, but with the 69 position you can have the best of both worlds. This position is designed for mutual, simultaneous oral sex. It may be a little more difficult to concentrate on what you’re doing with your tongue when she’s busy at work between your legs, but the novelty of being pleasured while pleasuring her is one that is worth the effort.

When it comes to 69ing, there are some dos and don’ts. In order to make it a pleasurable experience for both of you, check out AM’s 69 etiquette. For the purposes of this advice, we’re referring to 69ing as foreplay, so we won’t cover ejaculation etiquette, which could probably inspire an entire article of its own.

Take a shower

As with all sexual acts, especially those involving oral stimulation, it’s imperative to be clean and well groomed down below. Nobody wants to be greeted by unpleasant odors or a jungle of hair; this is bad 69 etiquette. So if you’re going to try out the 69 position, clean up and keep it trimmed. Better yet, jump in the shower together so you can ensure both of you smell and taste fresh and clean.
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Friday, February 11, 2011

50 amazing orgasm facts (Yes! Yes! Yes!)

Orgasm Fact 1

More than 70% of women have orgasms as a result of direct clitoral stimulation - and, unlike men, we can enjoy multiples.

"Women are not as quick to come down from their aroused state as men are, post-sex," says US sexologist Dr Yvonne K Fulbright. "Many can get straight back into it and experience it all over again." Read The Full Article

6 Tips To Make Anal Pleasurable

Although still considered taboo in certain parts of the world, anal sex is quickly becoming a more accepted part of people's sex lives.

That said, there are certain things you can do to ensure that your backdoor fun is the best it can be, regardless of whether you're giving it to her or she's venturing into your region.

Now then, here are six tips to make anal sex pleasurable and a memorable experience for the right reasons every time you engage in the deed.

1- Don't insist on penetration

Although it's hard to believe, you don't need to stick your fingers or penis inside the rectum for the pleasurable sensations associated with anal sex. And although it might be a bitter pill for some guys to swallow, when you're receiving anal sex, you don't need to have anything put inside you either.

By simply rubbing the anus or even licking it, known as rimming, the receiving person can derive awesome sensations.

2- Make it feel good all the time

Many women have told us that their first anal sex experience (and sometimes their second and third) hurt like a bitch, but ladies, it doesn't have to. We're serious.

Now, if she isn't calm and relaxed, it's going to hurt. If you insist on shoving your penis inside her (like ripping off a bandage -- one shot), it's going to hurt. If you don't use lubrication, it's going to hurt.
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Thursday, February 10, 2011

10 Sex Tips for a Magical Wedding Night

There's a general national myth about wedding nights; supposedly, every bride and groom have the most intimate and wonderful sex of their lives on their wedding nights. In reality, while your wedding night may be a little different, it is an intimate moment, and an opportunity. Here are ten tips that can help make your wedding night one of the best evenings of your life.

  1. Take things slowly
    Savor this moment. While you may be a little too tired to have the most technically excellent sex of your lives, this is likely to be among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.

  2. Lower your expectations
    So this may not be the most amazing sex you've ever had. So what? Try to just enjoy whatever happens.

  3. Read some sex books
    Who couldn't use a little advice from the experts? Some to try: The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man and Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men.

  4. Talk to each other
    Spend some time relaxing, talking about the wedding, and about your love for each other. Let things get romantic and sappy. The sex that follows will be intimate and amazing.

  5. Expand your idea of the "wedding night"
    If you're too tired for foreplay, that sex isn't going to be so great. Couldn't it be better to wait until the morning?

Male Enhancement Techniques

In my novel Shrinkage, a guy with one “little” problem solves that problem in a big, big way with a bizarre mixture of pills combined with a not-as-directed, inventive use of an electronic device. My novel is pure fiction and is hopefully good for a lot of laughs, but it won’t increase the size of your package one micron. Let’s get serious and focus on all the actual ways that you can increase the size of your manhood. But wait, are there really any?


Products with names like ExtenZe, ErectZan and the somehow recently knighted-sounding Sir Maximus round out the hundreds of offerings in this category.

A pill has about as much chance of actually increasing the size of your manhood as NBC does of ever getting Conan O’Brien to return to its network. Maybe a few of these “miracle” supplements bring, like, a milliliter more blood to the target area, but you could accomplish that yourself by being in a little better shape. There are many supplements claiming to make you 30% larger or even more, but the only thing getting huge is the profits of the companies that sell them. Save your money.

Penis pump

Model names include the Turbo Suck, the Xtender II Glow-in-the-dark Penis Pump (I can’t imagine why anyone would need a glow-in-the-dark model) and the Fire Pump
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Sex Tips for Virgins on Their Wedding Night

If you'll be a virgin when you get married, you're probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your wedding night. Here are tips and advice to help things go smoothly.

How to Communicate BEFORE the wedding night
Pick a quiet moment to ask your soon-to-be-spouse "are you feeling nervous at all about our wedding night?" Odds are, he or she will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it. Talk about what your hopes and fears are. If your partner has sexual experience or you want to prevent pregnancy, talking about safer sex is essential. You may want to visit a counselor, or talk about sex during your pre-wedding counseling. If you are too nervous to bring up the subject of sex, consider leaving a magazine open, or even forwarding this article in an email.

How to communicate DURING sex
The most important sex tip for being a great lover is to learn how to communicate in bed. For nervous first timers, it might seem more natural to stay silent; dirty talk can be intimidating. Try saying, "That feels good" or just moaning a little when you like something. Be observant of your partner as well - if they're quiet and still, you might want to try something different. You can ask, "Does that feel good?" or "Can I try..." Most importantly, speak up when something doesn't feel good. Sex can and should give both of you pleasure.
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Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Sex Positions With A Twist

Traditional sex positions tend to get a bad rap these days, and understandably so; they have a tendency to get old rather quickly. You may be surprised, however, to learn that these classic sex positions can be turned into something hot and altogether fantastic with just a few minor adjustments. Our sex positions with a twist are easy to do, and they don’t require the skill of an acrobat. And, perhaps most importantly, our sex positions with a twist deliver -- for both you and your woman. Try one of the following sex positions with a twist and you’ll see what we mean.

Cowgirl Lap Dance

The original cowgirl position is fabulous all on its own, but when you add a chair to the mix, it becomes one of our hottest sex positions with twist. Grab a kitchen chair and sit yourself down. Pull your woman close, and help her slide onto your lap. With her feet touching the floor, she’ll be able to rotate her hips and tease your erection with her clitoris, making this a very sexy precursor to intercourse. You’ll also have a birds’-eye view of her breasts. When she’s ready for intercourse, this position will give her better control than the traditional cowgirl position does, which means the ride is going to be twice as wild and twice as good.Read The Full Article

4 Tricks To Make Her Orgasm

She’s arching her back, moaning and groaning, and giving Meg Ryan a run for her money. You’re impressed by your ability to make her squirm like that, but deep down your thoughts race between: "What if she’s faking?" and "If not, how do I hit this magic button again?" If you’ve ever been there, or for that matter would like to find yourself in that enviable position, check out these four tricks to make her orgasm.

Put on musky cologne

Smell is the strongest of the five senses when it comes to sexual functioning for two reasons: First, since anything musky mimics testosterone, it’ll kick her libido into high gear. Baby powder can have a similar effect by activating her “scent print,” which links babies to procreation. Second, because smell, sex and memory centers share close quarters in the brain, the scent of arousal leaves the most lasting impression. The second she gets a whiff of your musky cologne, she’ll be transported back to the last time she smelled it on your body.

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Understanding Fetishes: Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

Guys, have you ever had the desire to check out the hot neighbor while she's tanning by her pool? Have you ever fantasized about having sex in public? If so, you might have a little voyeurism or exhibitionism in your blood. Most of us do to some degree, but how much can mean the difference between fueling fantasies and satisfying erotic desires, or invading someone’s privacy and getting yourself in a load of trouble.

Understanding fetishes starts with paraphilias

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV), paraphilias are recurrent, intense, sexually-arousing fantasies, sexual urges or behaviors generally involving nonhuman objects, the suffering or humiliation of oneself or one’s partner, or children or other non-consenting persons.

Both voyeurism and exhibitionism are considered paraphilias. Voyeurism involves the act of observing an unsuspecting person in the process of disrobing or engaging in sexual activity. Exhibitionism involves the exposure of one’s genitals to an unsuspecting stranger. Each of these would be present for at least six months, and the person would have acted on these sexual urges, or had the urges or fantasies cause a marked distress or interpersonal difficulty to earn a diagnosis.
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No Foreplay Required

We know that every advice column has attempted to drill into men’s heads that the No. 1 thing women want in bed is foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. But AskMen is going to contradict those teachings. Believe it or not, there are occasions when a woman doesn’t need the big build-up and wants to get straight to the main event. These are the times when the requisite foreplay can be skipped because she’s ready to get down to business immediately.

no foreplay required...

After a night out

The two of you have been out on the town together and had a great time. You enjoyed a few cocktails. You either joined her on the dance floor or, if you’re one of those non-dancing guys, you sat and watched her shake it with her girlfriends. The environment was giddy and sexy the way only a sweaty nightclub full of half-drunk people can be. On such a night, foreplay is not necessary. She’s probably been thinking about having sex with you all night. When you finally step in the door, she’ll be tearing your clothes off before you can make it to the bedroom.

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The Importance Of Foreplay

Traditionally, "foreplay" was considered to be something that a man had to do to get his partner ready for sexual intercourse. Today, foreplay has become an integral part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is true that impromptu sexual encounters without foreplay can sometimes be some of the best sexual experiences, but in general, most women will agree that good sexual encounters mean that you learn the importance of foreplay. A more vigilant form of foreplay will bring increased pleasure to both partners, and make the whole lovemaking experience more enjoyable.

spice up your sex life

Especially with age, both partners will need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. Hence you need to learn the importance of foreplay. The man will need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the woman will need the same to become properly lubricated. Most sex experts agree that there is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are peaking with excitement and are having a hard time controlling their desires.

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Anal Sex Dos & Don'ts

While certainly not as taboo as it has been in the past, anal sex is still a little outside the norm in the average bedroom. Strictly speaking, the anus was not designed for penetration, but when done right, butt play can feel pretty amazing. If you’re planning on putting anal on the sexual menu with your girlfriend, there are a few dos and don'ts to keep in mind so that both of you enjoy it.

Don’t do it if she’s pregnant

Anal sex is best avoided during pregnancy. The first reason to skip anal while she’s with child is that hemorrhoids are a common side effect of pregnancy and could make anal sex very painful. Secondly, you don’t want to risk an infection in her vagina if you happen to transfer bacteria from her anus to her vagina. The most important reason to not suggest having anal sex while she’s experiencing the joys of pregnancy is that it will not score you any daddy points. Tell her you think pregnant women are sexy and do it the old-fashioned way.
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