Sunday, February 13, 2011

Oral Sex: A Step-by-Step Guide

Everyone knows guys are obsessed with oral sex. That's probably why sex therapists and advice columnists receive more questions about it than any other sex act. I've collected the 11 most common oral sex concerns women face ‑- so you and your man can both love every minute. Have you ever seen a grown man beg? You will.

Where do I start?

The basic technique: Cover your teeth with your lips, with your mouth in an "O" shape ‑- don't stretch your lips, though; keep them loose and soft. With one hand gripping the base of the shaft, make one smooth movement by sliding your (very wet) mouth over his erection, taking him as far into your mouth as is comfortable. Stay there for one to two seconds, then slowly slide back up to the top, making eye contact with him as you reluctantly remove your mouth. (If his eyes are rolling back into his head, you're off to a good start.) Then ‑- to his delight ‑- start again. Slide your mouth repeatedly up and down. Use your tongue to keep everything nice and wet by swirling it around the shaft. Once you've mastered this, start using all of your tongue ‑- the top, the tip, the sides, the underneath. Try what I call a twist-and-swirl: Make a twisting motion with one hand as you slide it up and down, and swirl your tongue around the rim of the head, paying particular attention to the frenulum (the bit of skin on the underside).

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Positions To Help You Last Longer

Positions To Help You Last Longer
Are you tired of losing control every time you make love to your woman? Do you want to discover sex positions to help you last longer and that will keep you erect and feeling the good friction without the "Oh no, I'm already at the edge" feeling?

Well, today is going to be a very happy day for men out there who get too excited around the vaginal playground. These tips and position suggestions will allow you to delve into your sexual desires without fearing that the finale is just a pump or two away. So, before you burst just thinking about it, we'll get to our positions to help you last longer.

Beyond positions to help you last longer

Keep in mind that it takes more than just sex positions to help you last longer. First off, you need to keep a positive frame of mind. Don't turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy by continuously telling yourself that you can't do it. You can, especially if you believe you can.
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Withdrawal Method Sex Positions


Recent research has shown that the withdrawal method of contraception isn’t as useless as we all think it is. There is a common perception that using withdrawal (or "pulling out" as it's referred to) is as good as doing nothing, but most of us know that, in fact, this isn’t true -- it’s worked for most of us at least once, if not on a regular basis. Taking hormones and using condoms or diaphragms doesn’t work well for everyone for a variety of reasons, making the withdrawal method, in reality, a reasonably attractive option for many.

The 2008 research paper published in a recent edition of Contraception magazine shows that withdrawal is only 2% less effective than condoms. Condoms have a 2% failure rate, withdrawal has 4%. However, the real problems start when condoms, or withdrawal, are not used correctly, bringing the total realistic failure rate up to almost 20%. In saying all this, done properly, withdrawal is now a scientifically proved, reasonably reliable, contraception method for adults in trusting sexual or romantic relationships. However, it isn’t called coitus interruptus for no reason: Pulling out interrupts the flow of sex, and some people might find this unappealing. However, you can but try.
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Sexual Positions For Overweight People

While men who are overweight can enjoy sex just as much as the next guy, it seems that the feat is not always as simple as it sounds. Certain sex positions aren't very fulfilling and may make for awkward moments, so today's tip is dedicated to the horizontally challenged, but horny nevertheless.

First off, it's very important to have good stamina because sex is not a spectator sport. You have to be ready to delve into the act with your heart, soul and big-boned body. Don't just lay there, always keep yourself involved -- unless of course, she's the dominant type and wants you to submit to her (yum).

The following are not exactly mind-blowing positions that'll make your head spin, but they are good for curing what ails you (pending orgasm). So grab your woman and start riding the wave. Also keep in mind that these positions are good for those of any size.

pillows are your friend

Missionary, as I've already discussed, is not exactly the cream of the crop when it comes to the greatest sexual positions, but it does its duty for lovers everywhere when necessary. There is a catch for the overweight folks; you're going to need some pillows.
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20 kinky sex tips


So, you're ready to up the ante in the sex stakes? Try one of these down and dirty sex tips to turn the heat up in the bedroom or out..

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Having Sex During Your Period

If you're having your period, you may be assuming that sex is off-limits. Maybe you don't feel comfortable being intimate during your period, or you often feel unattractive or just unclean. Maybe your partner isn't comfortable with intimacy while you're menstruating.

Sex during your period.

In the end, choosing to have sex during “that time of month” is a personal choice that both you and your partner have to be comfortable with. If you want to, however, there's no reason you can't enjoy intimacy at all times of your menstrual cycle. In fact, it may bring real health benefits.

Having sex during your period may help provide pain relief for menstrual cramps by providing feel-good endorphins that are released during orgasm. Sex during your period could also help to shorten your period by a few days: You will still have a normal, healthy period, but the additional contractions that your uterus experiences during orgasm might help shed your menstrual blood faster, therefore ending your period a bit sooner than usual.

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Sexual Positions for Better Lovemaking

As the Kama Sutra — that ancient Indian book on sexuality — shows us, sexual activity is a pursuit of infinite variety. There are hundreds of ways in which male and female bodies can come together for mutual pleasure. Knowing a variety of sex positions can help you be a better and more inventive lover for your partner.

What's the best sex position? That answer is different for every couple. "Every two people fit together differently," says Sandra Leiblum, PhD, a sex therapist and director of psychological services at the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness in Bedminster. "Experiment and see what works, but don't get stuck too early with any one position because over time that will get boring."

Better Sex: The Missionary Position

It's a simple sex position: The woman lies on her back with her legs spread and her knees bent slightly. The man lies between her legs and guides his penis into her vagina, supporting his body weight with his arms or elbows.

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